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By Paul E. Schindler Jr.
Some things are impossible to know, but it is impossible to know these things.
July 19, 1999
Weird Al Special Issue
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My passions are few. My family, my work, computers, Monty Python, Firesign Theater--and Weird Al Yankovic. Python might be touring this fall, I already plugged the new Firesign CD, but this week--AL'S BACK. After a three-year hiatus, Al Yankovic is back with a new CD, Running with Scissors. This week's column includes extensive coverage. Starting with the picture of Al in place of my mug this week at the top.
The most important thing that happened this week was the return of our younger daughter Rae from two weeks in France with her French class. We missed her, and we're happy to have her back. She was up about 28 hours straight, from her 4am wakeup call in Paris to her arrival at 3pm in Orinda. She went to bed about 9 and slept until noon the next day. She had a wonderful time, renewed her friendship with people she already knew and made some new friends from Florida. They say travel is broadening. I think Rae was broadened.
She won't be here for long. A guitar lesson, a flute lesson, a day of fencing on Tuesday, and on Wednesday she heads to Oregon for her traditional summer with my mother. This year they're going to Chataqua (home of the eponymous lectures) for some fun and education. Boy, is Chataqua in the middle of nowhere.
Mark it on your calendars; Marlow's appearance as one of the subjects of a PBS Frontline documentary on the subject of SAT scores and college admissions will take place the week of Oct. 3. Please record it when it appears in your area, in case we miss it. More details as they become available.
Running With Scissors
Oh my my, this here Anakin guy
I own all of Al's CDs. I've seen him twice in concert (and curse the fact that he won't be anywhere near SF or San Jose on this tour, except for a stop in Sacramento while I'm in New York). I own all his music videos.
He is a funny man. He has clearly has personal problems with women and weight (he is whippet-thin, double jointed and so flexible that, as a gag during his concert, he sits in the lotus position and puts both legs behind his head). His lyrics are often bizarre and frequently extraordinarily angry. But from anger and pain often come great art. In Al's case, it is great art every time.
By the way, did you know that under ASCAP and BMI rules, you need permission of the copyright holder to do a recorded parody? That's right. And Al, as a courtesy, also checks with filmmakers when he parodies their work.
I could strain to describe the album, but here's the description from one of Al's web sites:
Sometimes it's not easy being Weird Al. Just because he's sold more comedy albums than anyone else on the planet doesn't mean George Lucas would automatically want him to parody Star Wars: The Phantom Menace. But he went ahead and wrote "The Saga Begins" to the tune of "American Pie," set a release date for his album (June 29, 1999), booked the tour, and then sent the filmmaker a copy of the song. "I crossed my fingers," says the pop satirist.
A few thoughts of my own. The Polka Medley, a standard on every Weird Al album really brought home to me how out of touch I have become. I only recognized two of the 14 songs in it ("Wannabe," which even you would recognize as "Tell me what you want, what you really, really want," and the Hanson's . That it is the exact reverse of the ratio in all previous medleys. I am clearly out of touch. Rae, on the other hand, said she recognized every song.
At this writing it isn't a 100% certainty that John F. Kennedy Jr. is dead, but that's the way it looks.
I am afraid I do not have any profound insight on this occasion. I just wanted to share with you my shock and sadness. It is a tragedy whenever someone dies young in an accident, doubly so when it is someone with the potential for greatness. In Kennedy's case, it was only potential.
That potential, by the way, was a tribute to his mother's wisdom. She kept John and Caroline away from the cousins. I have seen two of the Kennedy cousins in action, and the words "acting out" come immediately to mind. They, too, may go somewhere in politics (at least the five of them who have already held public office), but it won't be far, and their triumphs will be shadowed, if not overshadowed by their messy personal lives.
We'll never know now, what John could have been (any more than we'll know what Joe Jr. could have been, or John or Robert) had he been granted a normal life span.
Another reminder, as if another reminder was needed, of why it is critically urgent to live each day as if it might be your last--because it might be.
It's The Pentiums
Did I mention that there is a new Weird Al album entitled Running with Scissors? And that one of the cuts on it, "It's All About The Pentiums," a parody of Sean Puffy Combs "It's All About The Benjamins," with a little "I Did It For Love" thrown in?
Among the lyrics:
In a 32-bit world you're a two-bit loser
Play me online? Well you know I'll beat you
This site is completely devoted to the opening cut on Al's new CD, Running With Scissors. It includes a link so you can buy the CD. It has the complete lyrics, the video, a behind-the-scenes look a the making of the video, capsule biographies of the band and cast. It also includes a link to the more general Official Weird Al Website which includes things like his tour schedule and a shop where you can buy CDs and tee-shirts.
Top 12 Hidden Hospital Bill Charges
I made the Top 5 again. This is getting to be a regular occurrence. I rather like it. Even if Chris White didn't pick a Macarena submission.
July 13, 1999www.topfive.com ]
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12> I.V. bottle deposit in OR, VT, and MA: $3
11> Bill preparation and printing: $30
10> Polysyllabic Obfuscation Redisintermediation: $275
9> Three-second smirk from George Clooney: $8000
8> Bedpan Refrigeration: $48.00
7> Unspecified Aroma: $83
6> Upgrade to hourly sponge baths: $197/day
5> Wheelchair Damage Collision Insurance: $39.25
4> Surgeon's Daughter's Preparatory School Tuition, Kaplan SAT
Course, and DKNY Wardrobe Surcharge: $2500
3> Psychologist's fees for nursing staff after you put your
gown on backwards and went "visiting": $400
2> Donation to the Fund to Rehire Mandy Patinkin: $3000
and Topfive.com's Number 1 Hidden Hospital Bill Charge...
1> Lost forceps: $35.00
Knowing where the surgeon lost the forceps: Priceless
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Selected from 95 submissions from 36 contributors.
Today's Top 5 List authors are:
Kevin Freels, Burbank, CA -- 1 (10th #1)
Kevin Wickart, Normal, IL -- 2, 3
Dave Wesley, Pleasant Hill, CA -- 4 (Hall of Famer)
Bill Muse, Seattle, WA -- 5, 12 (Hall of Famer)
Michael Wolf, Brookline, MA -- 6
Greg Pettit, Houston, TX -- 7
Dave Henry, Slidell, LA -- 8
Randy Wohl, Ma'ale Adumim, Israel -- 9
Paul Schlinder, Orinda, CA -- 10
Jaime McCarley, Houston, TX -- 11
Wade Kwon, Birmingham, AL -- Topic
Tristan Fabriani, Passaic, NJ -- Banner Tag
Jeffrey Anbinder, Ithaca, NY -- List moderator, RU/HM names
Chris White, New York, NY -- List owner/editor
Phish, Burlington, VT -- Ambience
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News from Yugoslavia
I know I promised to run only one humor item per week, but I cannot resist a masterful shaggy dog story (underage gulls across staid lions for immortal porpoises--that sort of thing). This is one such story.
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Just the facts (courtesy of the Internet Movie Database).
Director: Paul Weitz; Writer: Adam Herz; Tagline: There's something about your first piece; Plot Outline: Four teenage boys enter a pact to lose their virginity by prom night. Jason Biggs: Jim; Shannon Elizabeth: Nadia; Alyson Hannigan: Michelle; Chris Klein: Oz; Natasha Lyonne: Jessica; Thomas Ian Nicholas: Kevin; Tara Reid: Vicky; Mena Suvari: Heather; Eddie Kaye Thomas: Finch; Eugene Levy: Jim's Dad; Jennifer Coolidge: Stifler's Mom; Rated: R for strong sexuality, crude sexual dialogue, language and drinking, all involving teens; Runtime: 95 minutes.
Well, I just saw the film, and there are a few things I need to say about it. As it turns out, they are almost exactly the same things I said about Big Daddy last week.
Ok, we've got a long letters' section, so I'll be terse. Adam Herz has a wonderful ear for dialog; expect to see more good things from him. This is the way real people talk.
Of course this film teaches poor values; it basically posits that losing your virginity before you graduate from high school is the most important thing you can do. I didn't, and my high school career worked out fine thanks. I know the same is true for several of you.
I went to see it on a Saturday afternoon in a suburban multiplex. At the ticket counter, they were kicking ass and taking names. No way my daughter and her friend were getting in without me--or without my signature and a check of my ID. R means no one under 16 admitted, especially when it is a raunchy, sex-based R like this film.
But I was surprised at the crowd once the lights went down. A few boys, but mostly 14-16 year-old girls. That's right. Despite the crappy trailer and the lousy reviews, word-of-mouth had gotten around that this was actually a relationship movie in which they only boys who ended up having sex were the ones who showed they were sensitive and paid attention to the girls.
The path to sex runs through the woman's mind! Radical! In fact, one boy wins his girl by going to the trouble of finding out how to provide her pleasure after she gets him off.
Despite the frat-boy humor, the girls had a good time. If they came away with the true message, they did all right.
Another unbelievable comic turn in a small supporting role for Eugene Levy, well on his way to becoming the Franklin X. Pangborn or Andy Devine of our generation. Eddie Kaye Thomas was unusually suave and showed a lot of potential here. And Jennifer Coolidge definitely wins the Ann Baxter Smouldering Older Woman award.
Marriage and Flag Burning
First, my mother checks in on marriage:
Having been married for 47 years to the same man, my entire adult life as a matter of fact, and having seen many marriages come and go and stay besides my own, I have formed many opinions about the institution, and as usual, am not shy about expressing my opinions. ( wonder where Paul got this quality?)
The main thing I have learned about marriage is that it seems to rotate through three cycles, many times. The first is the cycle when both partners are truly there in the relationship, working on it and in it, happily or unhappily. The second occurs when one of the partners is nor there, mentally and/or emotionally, and the third is when both partners have simply left the relationship mentally and emotionally, and it is during this cycle that marriages dissolve if they are going to. At least half of the time, the marriage does not dissolve, it simply goes into another cycle and continues on.
The most painful cycle is obviously the one in which only one of the partners has taken a leave of absence, and this seems to be the cycle which hits the most often-the mystery of why some couples make it and others don't seems to me to be in the fact that the partners somehow realize that the cycles don't last and that life does go on and change, and sometimes for the better !
Also, I have to say that from my own experience I have come to believe that it is all a matter of trade offs, what are you willing to give for what you hope to get? What are you getting that makes up for what you are not? Balance, ah yes, there is the mystery - how do we keep our lives in balance, keep our marriages in balance - juggling the cycles and hoping the together one will last for longer and longer periods as we grow old together - - or not !
Thanks mom. It's worked for me. That, and making sure to always know that you can't live a shared life with a series of 1-1 ties, so one of you gets a tiebreaker vote in each aspect of the marriage (home, child-rearing, finances, television, vacations). The process is informal and shifting, but as long as you give up some tiebreakers and your spouse gives up others, things will work out.
Kent Peterman, a regular and thoughtful correspondent, checked in with some thoughts on being alone:
Enjoyable column, as usual. thought provoking, poignant, funny. Who could ask for anything more. I liked your insight about being alone. Being alone with one's self is an interesting time. I've never minded being alone. I used to travel alone, eat out alone, etc. Now that I'm married I've learned to share space and to appreciate the sound, sight, presence and touch of another. When my wife travels I miss her. During summer when she works and I'm off the time alone doesn't seem quite as rife with joy. Yet I still treasure alone times, for without them I could never fully appreciate the joy of the together times. Anyway when you're alone there's no one else to blame for leaving the cupboard doors open, etc.
Of course, we all knew there'd be fireworks about the flag-burning item last week. I'll start with the smaller display, from my most dependably liberal reader, Ross Snyder:
Another delusion, that defacement of the symbol equals damage to what it stands for. We do it all the time -- a verbal insult often leaves us as humiliated as a blow. Although the Republic suffers not at all from harm to its symbol, polls seem to show some large part of the citizenry rank this triviality with treason.
From the other side came a blast from Jerry Pournelle. I enjoy Jerry. At present, we're colleagues. I hope someday we'll be friends. He is a veteran of Korea, a famed science fiction writer and the finest computer columnist writing today. I was pleasantly surprised to find he reads my column (perhaps attracted by my provocative weekly e-mail).
It turns out we agree, but he doesn't care for my reasoning or logic. And, by the way, he caught me in a major error. Clinton has nothing to do with the constitutional amendment process. The House and Senate decide whether an amendment goes to the states. The President has nothing to do with it (except of course, for the bully pulpit). Here's what Jerry had to say:
It is nothing like the first time in history that we restricted free "expression" as opposed to speech.
Here are some of my responses:
The First Amendment says CONGRESS SHALL MAKE NO LAW, etc. It says little to nothing about the states, but leave that.
Both Federal and State laws restricting "expression" have been made and upheld for a long time,
It is only quite recently that anyone conceived of a notion of "expression" as an extension of speech.
It's also the end of any notion of civilization and polite society, but we've probably got rid of those anyway.
This led us into a discussion of state's rights and the Civil War and imperial government, but I decided this week's column is long enough, so tune in next week to see what Jerry had to say on the inevitability of imperial government.
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